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  RealTime Speaking


RealTime

time to be real
revealing one's genuine character, motives, and intentions

Speaking
expressing oneself by verbal and nonverbal means
to declare, indicate, or disclose by any means of communication


RealTime Speaking is a profound and daring style of authentic public speaking and communicating based on integrity, transparency, and self-awareness, whose essential philosophy is: YOU Are the Message!

Is there anything in our lives that is not determined by the style, quality, and effectiveness of our speaking, of the verbal and nonverbal expression of who we are? The genius and originality of our lives, the success of our work, and the realization of our dreams all depend upon our speaking, all come alive only when we speak truthfully and with clarity and confidence.

In all speaking situations — whether a conference keynote, high-stakes business meeting, sales presentation, or intimate one-on-one social encounter — YOU are the message. It is you who commands respect and attention, you who imparts power to your words, you who inspires others, you who impacts and influences people.

The Great Adventure of Authentic Self-Expression

Does speaking up sometimes make you feel anxious and light-headed? Do you repress your voice and withhold your authentic feelings and point of view because you fear rejection or being misunderstood? Would you like to speak with more confidence and credibility, while commanding trust and respect? Then RealTime Speaking is for you. This two-day program with RealTime Speaking Licensee Sherrie Hatfield, is for everyone who wants to speak up and be heard anywhere and everywhere, all the time - at work, home, school, play. Speak up. Be heard. Everywhere. All the time.

This special workshop features elements of both the " Confidence is a Choice! " and " YOU Are the Message! " workshops. Now, more than ever, we need to be able to step boldly into the world with full courage and confidence to speak our truth with skill, passion, and power. We need to be able to create authentic connections with others -- to "see and be seen" without any pretense or hiding.

 

'Speak Truthfully' Book

In Speak Truthfully, Robert Rabbin, along with essays from many of his students, tell their stories of how they reclaimed their lost power of self-expression, how they healed their wounds of self-doubt, and restored their creative vitality from the clutches of repressive self-censoring. Robert and his students share how they found the courage and confidence to speak from their hearts, how they healed themselves of criticism-induced and judgment-inflicted wounds to their creative and expressive inner being. No longer afraid to speak truthfully, they now stand without pretense or defense in their truth, speaking with authenticity and vulnerability, in full and honest connection with others.
(An earlier edition of this book was published in 2008 under the name RealTime Speaking: YOU are the Message! This edition is significantly different: title, focus, front matter, and essays.)

ySpeak Truthfully: Speak Your Way to an Authentic Life with Awareness, Courage, and Confidence

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We all have a fiery fearless voice that tells us how to live fully and authentically. All we have to do is listen and act. RealTime Speaking is a philosophy and a practice of applying that profound self-awareness to authentic self-expression. Integrity means wholeness. When we speak truthfully, we bring our whole self into being, into life. Then, we and others know who we are.


Robert Rabbin
Creator of RealTime Speaking


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Carl Ransom Rogers (1902-1987)

By being yourself you can actualize the very best in you. You are like no one else in the world. Simply being ourselves is our greatest potential.
We do not have to be great artists or scientists and contribute something worthwhile to be worthwhile.
By tapping our individuality, each of us can contribute as no one else can.
It sounds so easy.
But…
to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else,
means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stops fighting